Monday 22 May 2017

B'coz IMPOSSIBLE word itself says I M possible :)



IMAGE : Lake View Cafeteria,Hazaribag


It's quite strange to see that though the sun is miles away from lake still at a very specific time they appear to be so close to one another & create a picturesque view. It depicts that nothing is impossible, it's just a matter of time, patience & perseverance that makes stuffs possible!
                                                                           
                                                                             -  MANJRI BHOSLE

Helping the feathered friends in summer ☺




It's summer time,we can easily remain hydrated by drinking water as per our convenience. Think about birds whose only saviour during summers are water bodies which also gets dried up due to hot waves. They can't open the tap like us to fulfill their thirst. So it's a kind request do keep water on earthen pots on top of your respective homes. It helps birds to survive during summers. 
                                                       
                                                                 

                 # support change for the better 😇

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Wednesday 3 May 2017

Guys,are you just an object that occupies space & has mass or a human?This article on Dowry System explains the answer!

''DOWRY'',the scary word that we've been hearing from decades and "DOWRY SYSTEM", a system of beam-balancing guys in terms of money on the basis of their degrees & achievements. Bank P.O = Rs.15 lacs, NRI Engineer = Rs.20 lacs,Indian engineer= Rs.17 lacs,Govt job = 10 lacs.
According to me,Marriage is a very pious relationship in which two people choose one another & promise to stay together forever until the breath ends.They share joy together,they share sorrow together,they face obstacles together & they enjoy success together. But the recent trend of DOWRY explains a total opposite scenario.Nowadays guy choose a life partner on the basis of monetary value offered by girl's parent's. It's more or less like bidding under which one wins who bids for highest price. So my question is, does anything gets sold?
yes,the guy out here gets sold. So can't it be said that he becomes just an object that gets placed in an auction? Just an object,unaffected by human feelings.His choice for a life partner ain't based upon his personal preferences & rather based on monetary value that gets offered to him. Can that money on the basis of which guy selects his life partner help him to develop understanding ,affection,concern,love & togetherness that are an integral part of a happy marriage? According to me answer is probably No.
I agree that in this era in order to live a happy life we all need monetary support to meet the cost of living & maintain a good standard of living. A girl's parents on their own wish can happily give to boy’s family whatever they want to in form of cash or kind. The two families can share the costs related to marriage proportionately according to mutual understanding. If a guy bears the responsibility to make a living for the girl then even the girl makes lots of sacrifices.She has to leave a place from where she has got her own identity,the most loving people and especially her own parents. She goes through the pain of delivering a baby which is supposed to be one of the toughest pain any human can bear. It’s high time for the sensible guys to stop treating themselves like an object. If your values,knowledge and learning is getting sold like an object then all the efforts that you’ve made to become what you’re today becomes worthless.
In some cases, the dowry system leads to crime against women ranging from emotional abuse,burning of bride,abatement to suicide,domestic violence & injury to even deaths.The payment of dowry has long been prohibited under specific Indian laws including, the Dowry Prohibition Act, 1961 and subsequently by Sections 304B and 498A of the Indian Penal Code. The practice of dowry deaths and murders continues to take place unchecked in many parts of India,especially in Bihar & Jharkhand and this has further added to the concerns of enforcement.
By practising such vague traditions we’re bothering our own generation as well as making a wrong path for future generation too. STOP IT & SUPPORT A CHANGE FOR THE BETTER.

    -  MANJRI BHOSLE