Few suggestions to improve yourself in a short span of time.

    1. Detoxify your speech. Reduce the use of cuss words. Be polite.


    2. Read everyday. Doesn’t matter what. Choose whatever interests you.


    3. Promise yourself that you will never talk rudely to your parents. They never deserve it.


    4. Observe people around you. Imbibe their virtues.


    5. Spend some time with nature everyday.


    6. Feed the stray animals. Yes, it feels good to feed the hungry.


    7. No ego. No ego. No ego. Just learn, learn and learn.


    8. Do not hesitate to clarify a doubt. “He who asks a question remains fool for 5 minutes. He who does not ask remains a fool forever”.


    9. Whatever you do, do it with full involvement. That’s meditation.


    10. Keep distance from people who give you negative vibes but never hold grudges.


    11. Stop comparing yourself with others. If you won’t stop, you will never know your own potential.


    12. “The biggest failure in life is the failure to try”. Always remember this.


    13. “I cried as I had no shoes until I saw a man who had no feet”. Never complain.


    14. Plan your day. It will take a few minutes but will save your days.


    15. Everyday, for a few minutes, sit in silence. I mean sit with yourself. Just yourself. Magic will flow.


    16. In a healthy body resides a healthy mind. Do not litter it with junk.

    17. For one month, eat home cooked meals.


    18. Keep your body hydrated at all times. Practice drinking 8–10 glasses of water.


    19. Make a habit to eat at least one serving of raw vegetable salad on a daily basis.

    20. Take care of your health. “He who has health has hope and he who has hope has everything”.


    21. Life is short. Life is simple. Do not complicate it. Don’t forget to smile.😇

CLOSING CYCLES by Paulo Coelho

*CLOSING CYCLES by Paulo Coelho*

*One always has to know when a stage comes to an end. If we insist on staying longer than the necessary time, we lose the happiness and the meaning of the other stages we have to go through.*

*Closing cycles, shutting doors, ending chapters – whatever name we give it, what matters is to leave in the past the moments of life that have finished.*

*Did you lose your job? Has a loving relationship come to an end? Did you leave your parents’ house? Gone to live abroad? Has a long-lasting friendship ended all of a sudden?*

*You can spend a long time wondering why this has happened.*

*Things pass, and the best we can do is to let them really go away.*

*That is why it is so important (however painful it may be) to destroy souvenirs, move, give lots of things away to orphanages, sell or donate the books you have at home.*

*Everything in this visible world is a manifestation of the invisible world, of what is going on in our hearts – and getting rid of certain memories also means making some room for other memories to take their place.*

*Let things go. Release them. Detach yourself from them. Stop turning on your emotional television to watch the same program over and over again, the one that shows how much you suffered from a certain loss: that is only poisoning you, nothing else.*

*Before a new chapter is begun, the old one has to be finished: tell yourself that what has passed will never come back.*

*Remember that there was a time when you could live without that thing or that person – nothing is irreplaceable, a habit is not a need. This may sound so obvious, it may even be difficult, but it is very important.*

*Closing Cycles.*

*Not Because of Pride, Incapacity or Arrogance, But Simply because that No Longer Fits Your Life. Stop Being Who You WERE, and Change Into WHO YOU ARE.*

Checklists of few common stuffs that we do in life which is gonna take us nowhere in life!

1. Don’t abandon someone suddenly after giving them attention. It kills them.
2. Don’t waste your time by stalking your ex on fb or checking people’s ‘last seen’ on WhatsApp. If they want to talk to you, they will. If they don’t, they won’t, even in a hundred years.
3. Don’t compare yourself with anyone. You and the rest are so different, that when you realize it, a comparison won’t even be possible.
4. Don’t ignore your body and health.
5. Don’t miss out on important engagements - Birthdays, weddings, your child’s first performance, your dad’s retirement party, reunions - its these events that make the fondest memories.
6. Don’t take things personally. Even if you know its personal, don’t take it personally. Then you win.
7. Don’t be rude to your parents. Or siblings. When everyone else will run for cover, its your family that will stand with you as you drench in your storm.
8. Don’t force someone to be in your life. Let them go, if they want to.
9. Don’t find reasons to be unhappy. It doesn’t pay to be sad. It pays to be joyous.
10. Don’t underestimate the power of people. 
11. Don’t let anyone make you feel badly about yourself. Always know your good things and your flaws. Accept them. Correct them. Or don’t correct them. But don’t let anyone else capitalize on them.
    

we at TEAM HUMANITY FOR YOU & ME (HUM) tried to be SANTA for the underprivileged people & personally visited them amidst midnight to provide them blankets & woolen clothes in random parts of Kolkata.

Share the video to support  & motivate people to do their bit for the underprivileged people :
https://youtu.be/AGOCWI1S_RM


While we take a sound sleep in cozy chilly winter in our well managed homes, there are many unfortunate people who've to bear the brunt of cold front. Due to profound bad fate some of them can't even afford to buy a piece of blanket to cover themselves while sleeping on streets, under railway premises, under huts & even under certain places where animals take shelter during winters. Government initiatives & schemes do try to help them but by the time the stuffs reaches these people, the corrupted middle men eats up much portion from alloted fund. So this Christmas, we  at TEAM HUMANITY FOR YOU & ME (HUM) tried to be SANTA for these people & personally visited them amidst midnight to provide them blankets & woolen clothes. If in case my post motivates you to do your bit for the underprivileged society, I would be glad that my efforts appeared to be fruitful.

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Why are so many politicians in India are corrupt & criminals?

Politicians in India are corrupt because there are no set of rules & regulations to appoint them at elite & powerful designations. India is a country wherein an illiterate fickle minded person designated as CM of state gives order to rank holder ias(who's himself/herself capable of formulating policies & orders on basis of strong in-depth educational background). Now that particular CM gets name, fame & immense power inspite of knowing that he/she doesn't deserve the same & make the best use of these to earn illegally & promote corruption. And ultimately we, the common people have to pay for it because our hard earned money goes towards government & these CM & other ministers robb it without any guilt. And finally scams like Coal scam, fodder scam, chopper scam etc happens. The ministers of jharkhand & bihar are quite prevalent in doing such crimes.
The youth are working hard 24*7 to get good education, quality jobs & competition is like rat race but there is so little ray of scope to them to even get a job that can help them to manage their livelihood. While on the other hand any Tom, dick & Harry comes & contest elections and after getting selected gets immense power & money & then exploit the government resources like anything.
Our country is still not stable & managed when it comes to political system. There is need of all India level entrance exams that can be conducted to shortlist candidates for purpose of giving election ticket. Of course it's not guaranteed that an educated person can't be corrupt but chances are quite low as knowledgeable people are supposed to be mature & good decision makers.


If you support my point of view then please share & support change for the better.

Jai HIND.
-Manjri Bhosle

Doves when smaller🕊️ Called as pigeons when larger🕊️ Symbolizes peace🕊️ And also known as head bobber🕊️

Doves when smaller🕊️

Called as pigeons when larger🕊️

Symbolizes peace🕊️

And also known as head bobber🕊️

What are the traits of a mature & healthy human being?

1. Good posture.
2. They talk slowly
3. They remain calm.
4. They have control over their emotions and thoughts.
5. They don’t care what people think of them so they do what makes them happy.
6. They treat themselves with respect
7. They help people.
8. They make fun of themselves because they’re so comfortable.
9. They hold eye contact
10. They dress well.
11. They take care of their health.
12. They cheer people up and they never show off.